Our Love Frontier

A Time for Reflection and Comprehension…

Rape Apologists…


I am not a rape apologist.

I do not deny, overlook or excuse real violence and rape…nor do I absolve those who are responsible. In fact, if you bother to look at my history, it is starkly clear that I have never embraced true, sexual violence, nor excused acts of violence and real abuse. I support accountability, and always have.

What I do, is recognise that many people take an absurdly broad definition of “rape”, and use it deceptively in order to impose their own intentions, upon others who disagree with them, or would otherwise choose not to follow their wishes.

I also recognise, that this behavior is counterproductive, it wastes public resources without providing a true public good, it devastates peoples lives [often being the worst, or only, trauma involved in the entire conflict], and it creates different subclasses of citizen, vulnerable to gross exploitation.

When I take a stand, I am telling you and anyone else out there…

…that you have no right to usurp the voices of others, nor to subvert their life experiences, by subjectively labeling “rape”, those experiences which they [child or adult] would willfully choose for themselves to experience.

You do not have the right, to take those experiences we [child or adult] find personal value in, deny the good we have received from them, fabricate a fraudulent injury from it, and completely mischaracterize it…[certainly not without being exposed, for the poor quality, dishonest character which you possess].

We [child and adult] have right to the integrity of our own cognition…and dishonest assault on our cognition, is an assault against us.

I condemn all who call “rape”, things which cannot sanely be recognised as rape, by those who are experiencing them, and willingly [often enthusiastically] choose to participate.

Human sexuality is a beautiful thing…

…Children are humans, too…they have a sexuality, and full ability to engage and benefit from it…These experiences are life enhancing.

You do not have the right to call human sexuality “rape”, just because some people suppose certain types of human sexuality are socially inconvenient…or because of superstitious objections…or because of incompetent ignorance of natural, human sexuality…or because legislators hold a vote, and come up with subjective lists…or because of simple ageism…or because of sex-phobia…or because you are uncomfortable with it, and just wish others wouldn’t…or, or, or…

Calling beautiful, sexual experiences “a rape”, is a filthy, wretched lie.

…and I will continue to consistently call the people who do this, liars…I will identify them, as people lacking integrity, and not associated with honesty.

Not one single thing about this, makes me a “rape apologist”…

I am simply identifying those amongst us, who live with a sex psychosis…and often a predatory disposition, of control, abuse and exploitation of others.


Gay & Lesbian Activists, That Just Don’t Get It…


StopDrLaura.com


“…one of our favorite Dr. Laura quotes: “How many letters have I read on the air from gay men who acknowledge that a huge portion of the male homosexual populace is predatory on young boys?” [...] and we were outraged that Paramount would give a national platform to someone intent on spreading that kind of intolerance against a class of Americans.”

Of course, nobody deserves having their character smeared, and being called “predatory”, when they factually are nothing of the sort.

…but, here is the issue…

They spend no time contesting the validity of the accusation [that said behavior is "predatory on young boys"], and merely try to distance themselves from “that kind of behavior”.

It is not a question of whether or not this “deserves” to be called predatory…Many so called progressives, buy into the pop culture intolerance, hook, line and sinker…and without any deeper, critical examination.

It is a question of whether or not, they themselves, are being associated with anything stigmatised, that might hold them back socially and politically.

The fact that calling man/boy sexual relations “predatory”, as an absolute default, is a lie, does not even factor into how or why they respond.

There is no integrity, in searching out and standing up for the truth…It is just all about retreating from the stigma and lies.

Many of these gay and lesbian groups, are all to willing to repeat these exact same lies…and propagate hate, violence and intolerance…so long as they don’t perceive it, as coming back on themselves in a bad way.

They demand that others treat them with integrity and respect, yet refuse these same dignities to others.

Astonishingly incredulous, but true.

It is not my intent to point fingers and condemn others…but, it is high time, that groups who claim to be for truth and freedom, actually stand for these things, unflinchingly across the board.

It is time they addressed the issues of political smearing aimed at all sexual minorities…and issues of integrity, honesty and respect for the life choices of others.

If they only focus on looking out for their own skewed interests, then they probably aren’t much of a supporter of freedom and honesty, in the wider sense.

This is one of the biggest tragedies, of the gay and lesbian movement.


Oh Look! YouTube Does Offer Alternatives…


…and a chance to bring your account back into good standing…

…Well…they do for some, apparently privileged, groups of people.

YouTube’s “Mercy”

Being someone who has never actually seen YouTube reach out, with a respectful, understanding and balanced response, towards perceived violations in “terms of service”, this video really caught my attention.

Wow…they really go into detail, with the person in question…even pinpointing exactly where, in the video, the “offense” started.

YouTube gave him 48 hours, to “correct” this very clearly defined material.

There really is no question at all, as to what YouTube is referencing, or what YouTube expects this person to comply to.

My question is…

…If YouTube is this concerned, and that dedicated to working through conflicts amongst it’s users…

…then where was “my” ultimatum?…where was the clarity, in specifying how “I”, allegedly, violated their “terms of service”?…and where the hell was even so much, as a simple e-mail, acknowledging me, or my account, or what some bigot was doing to me?

I went from no problems [except being cyberstalked and threatened, by online sociopaths using YouTube], with an account continually in good standing…to a full stop, suspended account…which I got locked out of, without even so much respect, as a simple acknowledgement that I exist…

Now, that is true contempt.

It is inexcusably shameful behavior, on the part of YouTube…which continues to sweep this kind of behavior under the rug, and whitewash it.

In contrast, it actually floors me, to see evidence of various other targeted people, where YouTube actually takes the time, and care, to respectfully work with people…and resolve the conflict at hand.

I never had problems with YouTube prior to the sudden locking of my account…I minded my own business, and was not harassing anyone.

In all of this, YouTube lost sight of the fact, that I was the one, being targeted and abused by other YouTube users.

YouTube’s response in all of this, was to victimise me all over again, by taking away my account…while allowing the accounts, of those who have lied about me, and disparaged my character, to remain unchallenged.

That is wrong, unethical and just flat out abusive.


Yes…”Age of Consent” is Stupid…


Some people may take issue, at what might be seen as an inflammatory remark earlier…where I call “age of consent” law, outright stupid.

…but, keep in mind, many people have been foretelling of the outcome, inevitable in these laws [and the blind motives of vengeance and hate, behind them]…some for many years.

What have we gotten from “age of consent”?…

…an all new brand of “sex criminal”…

…one without any real world victims, for starters.

It’s gotten us a parade of young kids [teens, and literal children], now branded as “sex offenders” [many in cases, where authority integrity has outright failed them], for doing nothing more than what normal, healthy, sexual beings do…with consenting partners, even.

It has given us news report, after news report, of the most outrageous stupidity…counterproductive idiocy [which typically does not even serve the purported agendas of the bigots who want these laws].

It has gotten people who are not sexually violent, or even dangerous by any sane, honest assessment, branded “sex offenders”, and placed on “sex offender registries” for life.

This is an awful, life destroying burden upon the people who get snared up into it…It is an inexcusable waste of public funds and resources [why don't we just burn the money, instead?]…and at the end of the day, it just causes far more problems, than it could ever hope to solve.

If people would get past their self supposed “right”, to demand that all things sexual which they don’t understand, “should be deemed a crime”…we could put an enormous amount of social conflict to rest…and move forward, in a meaningfully productive manner.

I call “age of consent” stupid, because it is nothing more than a predatory, political barrier…which is stopping true progress, towards true solutions…It is causing vast, many problems…and we are not better off for having these laws in place.

Some people will disagree, and say that because they act as a deterrent, some children are saved from a terrible fate…as if “that” is their social validity.

…To which I have to remind…laws predating “age of consent”, addressed and dealt with true assaults, quite effectively. There was never any valid reason for additional laws.

No, “age of consent” had ulterior motives behind them…motives that go beyond, and fall outside of, “protecting the public”.

“Age of consent” exists, in order to force wide spread conformity, to a limited range of social, sexual models.

It exists, so that bigots will continually have “perverts”, to blame all the woes of human life upon…so they will always have someone to curse, abuse, exploit, ostracize, politically rape and throw into prison.

There are plenty of people out there, who would like to see “me” thrown into prison, and have all manner of inhumanity befall me…and for what?

…certainly not over any act of violence on my part [I'm not violent]…certainly not because of any danger I pose to children [I'm no danger to children]…

…It is because, some people need a target…and that can be anyone, convenient…so that they have some place to direct their hate, rage and stressful dissatisfaction, with the harshness of their own lives.

Anyone who speaks truths, which others are not comfortable hearing…

…they often become prime targets.


The Sex Panic Delusion…


I am forever left in wonder, and perplexity, wherever I find people bemoaning the “apathy” and “inactivity” of the world around them; as relates to “child sex abuse” (CSA).

I think to myself…”What planet is this person living on?”…

Anyone with even the smallest amount of interest to look into it, cannot avoid learning the ugly truth…

…that most cultures seem to have gone totally insane, with “sex abuse” panic. So much so, that we cannot even have a real conversation, about what we actually know about childhood sexuality, without some lunatic hyperventilating, becoming vulgar with hate, threat and abuse [or even just lies upon lies]; and going berserk.

There are many sadvocates [people who call themselves "advocates", yet they spend their lives attacking, working to dominate others, spreading lies, hate and sometimes violence] out there, who are living in a delusional “la la land”; and they do not have their heads in reality.

Of course, it should be kept in mind…

…Their cries of outrage, at you [and anyone else] “doing nothing”, or “not caring”…is nothing more than an extension of their own hate, and disgusting propaganda.

Shame on them!


I Would Like to Pose a Brief Scenario, and a Question or Three…


Supposing, that you had lived during the days of the U.S. government backed, slaughter of the Native Americans…or, U.S. slavery…or the inhumane maltreatment of gays and lesbians…

What, if anything, would distinguish these now protected minorities, from the plight of any other, social scapegoat?

How would you ever know, during the social hysteria…that these groups were being wrongly demonised, that they were being lied about and that they deserved better?

How would you even be able to perceive this, given the stigma, the propaganda, fear of bucking the system, threat of retaliation, the censorship and lack of readily discernible statistical information?

You would not have been able to.

No, you would have been beating the blacks, spitting on them and treating them like chattel…

…You would have been murdering the Native American Indians…

…and you would have been cursing the fags and dikes, right along with the best of them…

If not actively doing so, you’d have been passively accepting such things, and allowing them to take place…and go on…

Very few people throughout history, have ever recognised the most ghastly acts of socialized cruelty, or had the courage to confront them while they were at their own height of cultural incorporation….Very few people ever had the integrity, to ever want to know, or get involved…when the issue is “to socially sensitive”.

Those who did, were hated by the majority [and especially the establishment], during their own time…It would not be for many decades, or longer, that a culture which has moved passed it’s previous bigotries [and lost it's direct, conscious identification with those bigotries], could transition into a new interpretation of what the radicals of yesteryear have accomplished with their lives.

Why do the previously persecuted minorities “deserve” respect and protection, today?

Just because, it is politically and socially popular today, and thought to be the morally right thing by today’s standards…does not make it “self evident”.

I think, it boils down to a culture which has learned to feel empathy, for certain minorities…

…yet, it has failed to learn that same empathy, equally and across the board.


Only $9.95!…What a Deal! [Mike Fook and his book]


MikeFook.com
More Information [scroll down a bit]

“Poor” Mike…he’s had problems finding/keeping a publisher for his book, in the past…

Book Information:

“Hi, I’m Mike. My latest fiction book is a vigilante thriller set in Thailand called,

LOS Tots Network: Secret Crimes? Secret Retribution.”

“LOS Tots Network is a twisted tale set in Patong Beach, Thailand which some call a pedophile’s playground. Justin, a psychologist and the main character in the story comes to Thailand for a break from the stress of living in the West. He has great timing as the tsunami hits and he finds himself volunteering to help by combing the beach for dead bodies.

He finds a dead German man wedged between some rocks and pulls him out. He opens his backpack and finds a waterproof diving bag filled with picture after picture of horrific child pornography that makes his stomach heave. He kicks the dead pedophile in the head repeatedly, breaking his neck and facial bones as shocked tsunami volunteer onlookers gasp.

What follows is action-filled vigilante justice as Justin tries to crack the network of pedophiles he finds centered in Patong Beach.”

Another Link, where it’s called a “fun book”

“Dr. Justin Baker, a psychologist moves to Thailand at the urging of his brother for some rest and relaxation. During the tsunami of 2004 he stumbles across a dead pedophile with a backpack full of color photos of the sickest pornographic child content he’s ever seen. Also in the bag with the photos is a 75 digit code he eventually cracks. He finds the pedophile’s site, www.LOSTOTSNETWORK.com is teeming with sick pedophiles from all over the planet, many of them based right there in Patong Beach, Thailand.

After cracking the code to login to www.LOSTOTSNETWORK.com, Dr. Baker struggles to eliminate as many pedophile members of the LOS Tots Network as possible before they destroy the server or spread the word amongst themselves that the network has been compromised.”

Hey!…FREE SAMPLES!

Wonderful!…the circus freak spectacle, of bloody violent assault and murder of “pedophiles”, all packed into a clean, little book; and all for your entertainment…for under ten dollars!

It would be interesting to read any reviews…

What little I’ve read, comes off as quite demented, hate filled and sick.

“Anything for a buck”, huh?…

I can think of a few books, which sound like parallels…one of them had to do with a “hero”, who traveled the USA, finding and butchering homosexuals…another dealt with a “hero”, performing terrorism on the government and people.

But, what the heck?…when you can objectify an entire minority, and devalue them down to the level of a ruthless stereotype…it’s not as though one ever has to confront the reality, that they are distributing hateful propaganda, aimed at real people who deserve no such thing.

A “monster” is always easy to hold in contempt.


Some Real Doozies, Those Comments…


George Hamilton and his stepmother?

Apparently, George Hamilton went onto The View, and talked about engaging in a sexual relationship with his stepmother, when he was the age of twelve…and again, as an adult [after she divorced his father].

Interesting quotes:

“When I was very young, 12, I had a relationship with my stepmother. Yeah. She was about 28, 30. It was very normal.”

“The bottom line is it didn’t feel abnormal. From my point of view it wasn’t something so crazy – I don’t think it warped me in my life.”

“It went on for a short period of time, when I was 12, and then strangely enough when I was of age and I was an actor in Hollywood I met her again, she was as beautiful, and we had a sort of follow up.”

Most of the comments are about what you expect, when you go wandering around such websites…

…mindless, unempathetic, dogmatic and shallow…

One is “refuting” George’s claim of not being warped, by claiming his very willingness to talk about it is proof he’s warped…because [obviously], this is not the sort of thing that should be talked about

I am perplexed, at just what so many of these commenters seem to think is so “sick”, about a 12 year old boy, his body and his sexuality…or his exploration/development of it.

People talk about children often, as though they are wonderful, angelic and beautiful…but, the concepts of a sensuality, and natural lust, get introduced…and suddenly, the child’s body becomes disgusting, offensive and unappealing for such things. It makes you wish they’d pick a side of the fence, and stay on it.

Hmmmm…a diagnosis of the stepmother being sick in the head

Yes, there are solid reasons, why I never intermingle with people from the tabloid rag sheet fan base.

…You always see the bottom of the dredges, when you go wandering around in such places.


Africa’s Witch Children…


The power of stigma…and the power of influential organisations with money, who are deeply saturated into a culture…

If you have not seen this already, it will blow your mind, that this kind of vulgar maltreatment of humans (and many small children, at that), is going on today, in our modern world.

The human mind is so vulnerable, to rhetoric, propaganda and the phobia of being ostracized ones self…that many people will do anything, just to stay in the good graces of the powerful, the influential and the majority.

Some will butcher their own children over it…and those children are hapless victims of unspeakable cruelty.

This is not a film talking about ancient history…

…It is talking about, what is happening today.

[Disclaimer: There is are multiple bits, of incidental child nudity in a few of these videos.]

Dispatches: Return to Africa’s Witch Children (1 of 5)

Dispatches: Return to Africa’s Witch Children (2 of 5)

Dispatches: Return to Africa’s Witch Children (3 of 5)

Dispatches: Return to Africa’s Witch Children (4 of 5)

Dispatches: Return to Africa’s Witch Children (5 of 5)


Alaska as Child Sex Travel Destination?…


British doctor ‘travelled to Alaska for child sex after grooming six-year-old boy in internet chat room’

After the strange article title, which hints at a man’s attempt to coax a six year old boy into sex, via an online chat room…we find out, that the actual set of circumstances, are that no children even existed, in this case…and hence, no possibility such a sexual encounter even could have taken place, in the first place…and this was all soundly understood, all along.

A cop, posing as a “perverted father” [as the article phrases it], got into a chat room relationship with this guy…and eventually, the cop offered him his two very young, very fictional and non-existent, children…to travel to Alaska for the sake of sex with.

Now, the guy faces no less than 30 years in prison, and may be sentenced to life in prison.

Aside from the fact, that this is undeniably, blatant entrapment [which is not supposed to even be legal for law enforcement to have anything to do with], it is also amongst the growing list of examples, where an arrest and prosecution has occurred, in a case entirely lacking anything resembling a victim

I don’t know…maybe, “this” guy is a complete dirt bag, who’s sole intent was getting easy access to a couple of little kids, for a quick and easy thrill.

…or, maybe he is just another victim of circumstances, who cannot legally search for intimacy where he lives, so he fool heartedly fell for the seduction, of “greener pastures elsewhere”…

Without question, what he was allegedly looking to experience, is not ideal…

…but, he does not deserve to be locked up in a cage, as though he were some wild animal, merely on the grounds that he had some online conversations, expressed a few desires, and took a trip to a certain destination.

These prosecutable non-crimes…thought crimes…or, crimes of circumstantial interpretation…

…whatever you want to call them, it does not matter…

…They are bogus, and exist for no other purpose, than to imprison anyone with a viewpoint or philosophy, which the establishment does not approve of.

We live in a time era, where prosecutions occur, over quasi crimes which never even held the possibility of a victim [in any sense of the meaning]…

This is just a new case, but this kind of government and law enforcement corruption, has been going on for many, many years now.

People get charged with attempting crimes, where it was never possible for them to succeed, because the basic, necessary, critical variables were absent from the entire scenario.

“So what?…He thought he was going to do it!”, you say?…

Even if he did believe he was willfully committing a crime, this is nullified by the fact that no such crime was possible. Where a crime cannot be accomplished, there is no crime.

The way these cases are treated, is nothing more than a psychological game…get someone to admit their naughty fantasies, entice and seduce them with a promise…and call anything they possibly do, in following along with the law enforcement officers lead, a crime, itself…allegedly, one which demands the same gravity of reaction, as what would occur if the original, promised and presumed crime [any kind of sexual contact, with a minor] had occurred.

The only person who committed a crime in these kinds of cases, is the law enforcement officer, who is committing an act of entrapment, and instigating others to take theoretically criminal action.

Such a person, is theoretically instigating a crime, while offering promise of comfort, support and often protection, during the commission of said theoretical crime.

If the law enforcement officer is held immune to prosecution, in these cases…then the people who become entrapped, must also be held immune to prosecution…because they are both taking part, in the same “crime” of fictional circumstances.

There cannot be any double standards here…What they are both engaged in is either a prosecutable, serious crime…or it is not.

…and the law enforcement officer is every bit as much responsible for this “crime”, as the guy who is being entrapped, and going along with it…Typically, the law enforcement officer is the primary cause, of these “crimes”, and he/she is far more responsible for the planning and agreements, than the victim they are entrapping.

Of course…let’s face it…

This really is the most direct kind of example, of thought crime…No, he didn’t commit any such act with a child, but…”he wanted to”…

…That is exactly why, the legal system jumps through so many hoops, while ignoring so many legal restrictions [placed upon their own agencies, and selves], in order to pretend that they “justify” what they are doing here.

People who like minors as sexual companions, are stigmatised so badly in these cultures, that even upstanding law enforcement personnel can get away, with treating them grossly different from the rest of society.

Legal rights to equality, only exist where there are groups of organised, like minded people…who are willing to stand up and force others to treat them as equals.

This is at the heart, of why Child Lovers, and Teen Lovers, are not accurately represented, or treated with dignity and respect, as citizens of equal status to everyone else.