Rape Apologists…
I am not a rape apologist.
I do not deny, overlook or excuse real violence and rape…nor do I absolve those who are responsible. In fact, if you bother to look at my history, it is starkly clear that I have never embraced true, sexual violence, nor excused acts of violence and real abuse. I support accountability, and always have.
What I do, is recognise that many people take an absurdly broad definition of “rape”, and use it deceptively in order to impose their own intentions, upon others who disagree with them, or would otherwise choose not to follow their wishes.
I also recognise, that this behavior is counterproductive, it wastes public resources without providing a true public good, it devastates peoples lives [often being the worst, or only, trauma involved in the entire conflict], and it creates different subclasses of citizen, vulnerable to gross exploitation.
When I take a stand, I am telling you and anyone else out there…
…that you have no right to usurp the voices of others, nor to subvert their life experiences, by subjectively labeling “rape”, those experiences which they [child or adult] would willfully choose for themselves to experience.
You do not have the right, to take those experiences we [child or adult] find personal value in, deny the good we have received from them, fabricate a fraudulent injury from it, and completely mischaracterize it…[certainly not without being exposed, for the poor quality, dishonest character which you possess].
We [child and adult] have right to the integrity of our own cognition…and dishonest assault on our cognition, is an assault against us.
I condemn all who call “rape”, things which cannot sanely be recognised as rape, by those who are experiencing them, and willingly [often enthusiastically] choose to participate.
Human sexuality is a beautiful thing…
…Children are humans, too…they have a sexuality, and full ability to engage and benefit from it…These experiences are life enhancing.
You do not have the right to call human sexuality “rape”, just because some people suppose certain types of human sexuality are socially inconvenient…or because of superstitious objections…or because of incompetent ignorance of natural, human sexuality…or because legislators hold a vote, and come up with subjective lists…or because of simple ageism…or because of sex-phobia…or because you are uncomfortable with it, and just wish others wouldn’t…or, or, or…
Calling beautiful, sexual experiences “a rape”, is a filthy, wretched lie.
…and I will continue to consistently call the people who do this, liars…I will identify them, as people lacking integrity, and not associated with honesty.
Not one single thing about this, makes me a “rape apologist”…
I am simply identifying those amongst us, who live with a sex psychosis…and often a predatory disposition, of control, abuse and exploitation of others.
Gay & Lesbian Activists, That Just Don’t Get It…
“…one of our favorite Dr. Laura quotes: “How many letters have I read on the air from gay men who acknowledge that a huge portion of the male homosexual populace is predatory on young boys?” [...] and we were outraged that Paramount would give a national platform to someone intent on spreading that kind of intolerance against a class of Americans.”
Of course, nobody deserves having their character smeared, and being called “predatory”, when they factually are nothing of the sort.
…but, here is the issue…
They spend no time contesting the validity of the accusation [that said behavior is "predatory on young boys"], and merely try to distance themselves from “that kind of behavior”.
It is not a question of whether or not this “deserves” to be called predatory…Many so called progressives, buy into the pop culture intolerance, hook, line and sinker…and without any deeper, critical examination.
It is a question of whether or not, they themselves, are being associated with anything stigmatised, that might hold them back socially and politically.
The fact that calling man/boy sexual relations “predatory”, as an absolute default, is a lie, does not even factor into how or why they respond.
There is no integrity, in searching out and standing up for the truth…It is just all about retreating from the stigma and lies.
Many of these gay and lesbian groups, are all to willing to repeat these exact same lies…and propagate hate, violence and intolerance…so long as they don’t perceive it, as coming back on themselves in a bad way.
They demand that others treat them with integrity and respect, yet refuse these same dignities to others.
Astonishingly incredulous, but true.
It is not my intent to point fingers and condemn others…but, it is high time, that groups who claim to be for truth and freedom, actually stand for these things, unflinchingly across the board.
It is time they addressed the issues of political smearing aimed at all sexual minorities…and issues of integrity, honesty and respect for the life choices of others.
If they only focus on looking out for their own skewed interests, then they probably aren’t much of a supporter of freedom and honesty, in the wider sense.
This is one of the biggest tragedies, of the gay and lesbian movement.
Double Standards…
“These double-standards whereby some people demand protection for themselves, but complain about it for others is just plain hypocrisy… ” – anonymous
I could not agree more, with this anonymous comment.
To many people out there want it good and fair for themselves, but they could not care less, about any such equivalent for other groups/individuals.
Well said!
Definitions: A Quote…
“Among animals, it’s eat or be eaten. Among people it’s define or be defined.” – unknown
This unnamed person, has pinpointed much of the motivation in what I do…
…or, at least what I am fighting against…
…that being, skewed, dishonest and maliciously horrible definitions, imposed upon people and actions.
So many of the people who get caught up into the resulting hysteria, are hapless victims of scapegoating…and as individuals, wholly undeserving of the terrible fate imposed upon them.
If you tell a lie long enough, most people will believe it, and start to repeat it…
…It is still a lie, however.
People suffer horribly, in so many ways, because of an institutionalized unwillingness to be honest.
When are we, as a species, finally going to stand up for truth?
When are we going to defend, and celebrate, truth?
When are we going to value each other, as brethren of the human species?
When is our species going to ever learn, how to be humane?
Principle: Few Will Lead the Way…
It’s always controversial, irregardless of who the groups concerned are, wherever it is argued that society should take a radically different approach, to the currently prominent one.
This has happened, all throughout history, and people have typically tried to distance themselves from the immediate ferocity of such conflicts.
…Only people of uncommon integrity, have stayed the course, and championed the truly big causes throughout our history.
Why “The Religious” Are So Disliked…
A possible reason for not liking christians
Actually, amongst the most pressing issues, respect for individuals rights, and diversity, is probably at the top of the list.
Many religions have dominion-ism, as their primary focus. Because of this, they aim to control and manipulate as many people as possible. Whomever cannot be controlled, they aim to marginalize in order to erode their political status…and in worst case scenarios, those kinds of people get out right murdered, in the name of “divine right [or justice]“.
In spite of the fact, that many people within the religion prefer to overlook this…this fundamental truth still exists, and manifests itself in many ways.
People who are not under the influence of these religions, recognise the encroachment upon their own lives, and the freedoms they value.
Not only does this create a very real, very justified sense of offense and threatened assault, but also one of alarm…and a need to go into a defensive mode.
Those who are religious, have a tendency for flocking together, and seizing political power…and stripping rights from others, who do not subscribe to their own beliefs, dogma, or agendas.
A great many of us who are not religious, have recognised this behavior, and the threat which it poses to everything from civil peace, to the very chance of staying alive and living life to it’s fullest.
If you are religious, and you want religion to be worthy of respect…then push for religion to respect, and not tread upon, the freedoms and viewpoints of other groups…even including those groups, who reject religion.
This is key.
It really is about “human to human” respect.
The contempt within religion, is poison.
A Quote…
Wow!…
January was obviously a “banner” month, here at Our Love Frontier…
So, let’s kick off February, with this short quote…
“He who would hunt monsters should take care lest he too become monster… For when one gazes at length into the abyss, it too gazes into you.”
Friedrich Nietzsche.
This speaks quite pointedly, to all those hate filled people out there, who are actively spreading lies; and “hunting” Child Lovers.
I’ve seen this happen, oh so many times…
Someone assaults me [and the world] with their ignorant vitriol, and I am left to say…
…”Look in the mirror…The monster is not me…It is you.”
“Pedophilia is Not a Sexual Orientation?”…Prove It!
I have an open and standing challenge, for any takers…
Many people like to claim, that pedophilia is not a natural, sexual orientation, and that there is something abnormal about it. To those who adhere to this belief, I am calling you out.
This is your chance, to prove your contention, once and for all…It is time to engage your mind, and make your case.
A few ground rules, however…
Shallow “talking points” [ie: phrases you have been conditioned to parrot, while failing to engage them critically and objectively, yourself], will not be accepted as “proof” of anything…so, you can leave things like, “It’s not sex between two consenting adults”, in the intellectual gutter, where they strictly belong…This challenge has higher standards.
Appeals to cultural norms [or constructions, like the modern day paradigm on "childhood"] shall also not be accepted, as these are not indicative of natural human biology, and sexuality. Cultures are largely infamous, for trying to eradicate, and “vote out of existence”, many aspects of the human nature.
Unless you can soundly substantiate such a claim, then denying that pedophilia fills at least one [but likely multiple] role[s] of human sexual intimacy, will also not be accepted.
Citing the DSM [Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders], especially given the critical blow to it’s integrity which it received when, for strictly political reasons, it removed “vanilla grade” homosexuality from it’s listings as a
“mental disorder”, will not gain you any credibility. The DSM will change, based upon public pressure, and social trends. This does not bode well, when trying to evoke it as an authoritative resource, on human sexuality [or many other issues, for that matter].
And lastly…
Simple assertion of an accusation as “being fact”, also will not be accepted. Denial of many sexual minorities, to the right of calling their sexual orientation, an actual “sexual orientation”, is an ages old tactic of social and political subterfuge. This is nothing more, than denying minorities the words and ideas they need, to define themselves, communicate and gain a political equal footing/status, with other social groups.
Now, here is what I would like to see you [the ardent, staunchly assured person, who absolutely knows these things] prove soundly and without question…
a) that pedophilia is not a natural, human, sexual orientation, as a matter of biological nature and historically demonstrable fact.
b) that pedophilia is not normal, as one aspect of human sexuality.
c) that childhood sexuality does not exist, and/or is incompatible with pedophilia.
d) that pedophilia serves no natural utility, for the good of the human species.
e) that children are biologically prone towards trauma, when confronted with non-violent human sexuality.
f) that children are mentally hardwired, to “feel wrong” or “affraid of” human sexuality, without prior being socially groomed, to feel spooked, ashamed or dirty, when encountering human sexuality.
g) that legal minors are, by majority, incapable of mutually, and productively, engaging a sexual relationship, because of a literal and overwhelming deficiency in them.
Take your best shot at any of these, any combination of them…or all of them…
Please…
I would really like to see what people, trying to engage their own minds with critical thought, and trying to substantiate what really amounts to pop culture trends, can come up with.
Many people take these accusations above for granted…but, how many of them can actually be proven with fact?
Come on!…Make your case…
…Seriously.
It Might Not Be Abuse…
When taking into account the factual cognition of the child…
…It might not actually be abuse, after all…
Refreshingly honest…Yes?
Sociopath and Pedophile…
a) A person, as a psychopathic personality, whose behavior is antisocial and who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience.
b) Someone whose social behavior is extremely abnormal. Sociopaths are interested only in their personal needs and desires, without concern for the effects of their behavior on others.
c) A person affected with an antisocial personality disorder.
Many people have attempted to intertwine the words “sociopath” and “pedophile”…to the point, where it seems they lack the ability, to understand the many ways where both are distinctly different.
A sociopath can certainly be a pedophile…
…but, being a pedophile, does not make one a sociopath [or a psychopath, for that matter].
Pedophilia has to do with a persons sexual orientation. Labeling someone a pedophile, says nothing about their character, nature and ethics. It only references their sexual orientation, but says nothing about how they live their life, and interact with others.
A vast many pedophiles, are not antisocial…nor do they lack a sense of moral responsibility…nor do they lack a social conscience…nor have they ever been shown to be, particularly abnormal [at any point in human history, or that of other species]…nor are they known to be self centered, and unempathetic towards others…nor has it remained undiscovered, that many pedophiles are quite personally, and socially, reflective, as deep and complex thinkers who understand the social conflict they find themselves submerged within…nor has there been any lack, of pedophiles who agonise, over what may be imposed upon those who they would love…
Pedophilia is not a disorder.
The only reason anyone ever gets away, with equating pedophiles with sociopaths…is because they [and many others] willfully ignore [and in many cases censor] acknowledgement of all other things about us, which make us just as perfectly normal human beings, as anyone else.
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